I'm a Christian and I'm also a human with all the frailties and weaknesses most of us humans have. I believe living as a Christian is very simple. 1. Love others as yourself. 2. Forgive others as many times as necessary. 3. Temper your judgements with love and compassion. All three of these come directly from the teachings of Jesus. We don't have to be perfect and we shouldn't expect anyone else to be perfect either. We should try our best and be forgiving when we fall short.